Nov 21, 2022Happiness, Self Improvement
True Grit isn’t just a fantastic movie, but it’s also something that every single person faces whenever they try to achieve their dreams. Sadly, most people quit at their first taste of grit. Grit is talked a lot about in self-development and motivational circles, but what is it, and why is it such a big obstacle for people to overcome?
According to the person who coined the term, Angela Duckworth, “It entails diligently working towards challenges and being able to maintain effort and interest over long periods.”
Grit is nothing more than a mixture of perseverance and passion. The passion comes from your goal, and perseverance means not giving up, even when the odds are against you. Grit is often thought of as something that you either have or don’t have, but grit can be built like many things.
The first part of grit stems from your goal. If you want to be a professional in a field, produce something that will change the world, or achieve a particular position in life, then your goal needs to be powerful. You should be consumed by the need to work on your goal every day, to fight harder and longer than anyone else, and if you don’t work on your goal, you should feel a bit of sadness.
This isn’t something an article or coach can teach you, but it’s instead something you need to figure out yourself. Once you have that passionate goal, then you can start building grit.
Once you have your goal, chances are it is a long term one. If you want to write a book, you need to write a certain number of words every day. If you want to become a doctor, then you have to go to school. These goals aren’t done overnight, and they often require you to work on tedious projects every day to get where you want to go.
Grit is what gets you through the time; even when motivation and discipline fails you, you can always fall back on passion fueled by grit. You want that goal more than anything else in the world, and grit allows you to grind through the tedious times to achieve that goal.
If you have a lot of grit towards your goal, you won’t care about what you have to do or the circumstances you have to go through. Working long hours, late nights, or pushing through obstacles to achieve goals won’t be hard with lots of grit. Grit allows you to focus on your goals above all else, and soon you won’t even care about the steps.
Instead of being upset that you have to write 5,000 additional words to get your book done on time, grit will allow you to complete that hard goal because it leads you down the path of becoming an author.
Discomfort is something that we tend to run away from, as it is uncomfortable. Either that or we end up quitting whenever things get too hard. Instead of focusing on our goals, we focus on the steps that lead to the goals and then get discouraged.
But if you have the mindset to do what has to be done, no matter how you feel about it, then you will start building grit. Instead of forgetting about why you started and what you are working for the second that an obstacle pops up, you’ll instead have your goal in the back of your mind and use it to propel you forward.
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